Before you start anything sensual, you have to bear this in mind: take things slowly. You need to know that women take a longer time to reach orgasm. If you try to rush into things too quickly, you are not giving her enough time to warm-up! She might not be able to achieve orgasm and that is the last thing that you want to happen, right?
Here are some tips that you can use tonight.
1. Giving her a good breast massage. Women love it when they feel pampered and loved. Spend some time doing the initial foreplay with her breasts.
2. Gently kiss her neck. Her neck area is another erogenous zone. Gently bite her neck if you know that she enjoys it.
3. Then use your tongue to lick her left nipple gently, in circular motions. Start with a clockwise direction, then anti-clockwise.
4. Move on to her right nipple and repeat the licking process. At the same time, use your fingers to play with her left nipple.
5. Once you are done, suck harder on her nipples with varying speeds and intensity. Alternate by speeding up, and then slowing down. Keep changing momentum and the whole idea is to let her to be unable to anticipate what is coming up next.
6. Lookout for signs of orgasm. She might be breathing harder than before, or there might be some vaginal contractions. She might even be begging you not to stop!
At this stage, you might want to penetrate her. You will surely give her a complete orgasm! Do you know that most women are unhappy with the size of their partners' penis?
Ancient tantra approaches the vagina - or yoni - from a place of love and respect. By that definition, the yoni massage is a means of honoring women. This exotic massage form is both sensual and pleasurable, but the intent is not to bring the woman to orgasm but to awaken her awareness of her own sexuality, and to generate a bond of trust and intimacy with her partner. Orgasm is a welcome benefit, but it is not the intent or focus of yoni tantra massage.
A tantra master will clarify that he intention behind this revered tantra technique is not to reach a destination, but to experience the journey, however long it takes, together. The woman needs to be able to trust the most intimate part of her body - her yoni - to her partner. In other words, the key to yoni tantra massage is that the woman retains. Genuine practice of this spiritual erotic massage can last several hours of conscious awareness.
Genuinely practiced under a good tantra teacher, it is an emotional and spiritual journey of touch, with reverence and respect as its foundation. As already stated, the goal of yoni massage is not orgasm, but the experience of touch, relaxation, pleasure and release. Each woman is at a different place in her journey, and each experience of this potent tantra technique produces unique results in individual women.
That said, it also has the potential of sensitizing and quickening the 'Charmananda bindu', also known as the female G-spot, and to lead to the amazing experience of female ejaculation. Tantra describes this as the release of 'Amritam', or the sacred feminine nectar. Yoni tantra massage is a very intimate healing ritual, and must therefore be shared solely in a loving relationship. This is because it helps women learn to trust their partners. It empowers them to regain control over their own sexuality. It is also a powerful healing force for women that have been abused in the past, either mentally 토닥이 가격 or physically, and want to regain their sensuality and sexuality.
Despite the connotations of the name, the benefits of yoni massage are not gender-specific. Partners of all sexual orientations can benefit from the bonding and trust-building it provides. In all circumstances, this tantra technique always happens in a comfortable and divine space. It is not simply a hands-on technique, but involves the conscious direction of energy throughout the body via deep tantra breathing and 'Siddha Tantra' visualizations.