Step One
One way to do this is to focus on the here and how in tantra massage. If one feels every touch on the body and has no goal of a orgasm, one can become much more sensitive to pleasure.
So one important tantra technique and position is to get out of thoughts and the future, and be totally immersed in whatever is happening at every second.
Step Two
The second important tantra technique is to really relax the body during tantra massage or tantra sex. Tantra tells us that any tight areas in the body will restrict the flow of energy. This is one reason why men come too soon. The energy is blocked, so it only comes out one way the penis. The advantage of having total relaxation in tantra massage or tantra sex, is that it allows a man to start to learn to have multiple whole body orgasmic experiences.
This advice also applies to women learning to have g spot or cervical orgasms. They learn this by totally letting go and falling into the orgasm rather than striving for it as in a normal clitoris orgasm.
Step Three
The breath is another important aspect of tantra massage.
The more you open up to deeper and 여성 토닥이 slower breathing the more sexual energy will move in your body. Making sounds also really helps so the energy move up the energy chakras, so it is more a whole body experience. The big draw is a great way to end the tantra massage technique as it can take you into deep spiritual; places out of this world.
I cover how to do this technique and many tantra strokes on a mans penis in my free newsletter.
Massaging though used for relaxation and sometime also a prelude to sex, there are certain important ways by which it can also be used for sexual arousal instantly. The key is to know the exact zones that need to be sensitized for better sensual arousal.
You can make love better when your body is loosened up by massage, but if you want to use massage to arouse, rather than to just relax each other, move from very rigorous techniques to very gentle actions.
You could start by tracing a line with the finger tips back and forth across the nipples and the chest or the lower abdomen and believe me this would be far more exciting than more forceful movements of conventional massage.
Many other areas respond to an insistent, feather touching. These erogenous zones include the
1. earlobes 2. The sides and nape of the neck. 3. The inside of arms and thighs. 4. Navel 5. Buttocks 6. Calves and 7. Toes
You need not restrict yourself to the use of only hands or fingers. You can also lie on your partner and rub your body against theirs. Use of feet or toes to explore hidden crevices can provide each one of you with novel sensations.
Key is for you to have the right chemistry with your partner. Once you have it then every area of the body is highly sensitive to the erotic touch of the lover and can be stimulated so as to give pleasure and heightened anticipation.